link to uscontact usNBCF home

Discussions

Discussion:

Hot flashes--what helps?

by Bay on 1/7/2008 at 6:31 pmin category Survivors
Hi Gals,
Do you have any products or routines you swear by to help you deal with hot flashes, night sweats or really anything to help deal with menopause?

I would like to get some kind of personal fan but what kind?

What tips do you have?

One of my night time routines is this...I put my bottle of water in a rubbermaid container of ice and cover it up with a fresh washcloth. Then if/when a brutal hot flash hits me in the night, I have most everything I need right there. Anything to help me get back to sleep quicker!


Hugs

Comments:

Want to leave a comment? Login or Register now!
I keep a window open with a fan blowing cold air in at night, then an oscillating fan circulating the cold air.

I layer several think blankets instead of having one heavy one so I can peel off what I need to. I have Pima cotton sheets with a high thread count (very soft and cool).

I place a bowl on my nightstand with a frozen gel pack under a washcloth that I wrapped in ice. The ice melts to the cloth is cold (to place on the back of my neck) and the gel pack goes on my forehead or temples).

I fill my water bottles about 1/3 full then stick them in the freezer (no lids). This makes a nice chunk of ice. I then fill to the top with water before I go to bed & put in next to the bowl on the nightstand. By the time a hot flash wakes me up, the ice has floated up and melted enough so the water is ice-cold and I guzzle it down while the cold cloth is on my neck.

It sounds like a lot, and it is a pain, but I find my comfort is worth it.

For the record, I finished my chemo 1-17-08 and started Tamoxifen 2-22-08, 2 weeks into radiation. I don't get as many hot flashes at home as I seem to in public - probably because I go without a wig at home, and I don't leave home without a wig, one of my BeauBeau scarves or a hat. I can't exactly whip off the wig in my office (I manage a medical office) or at the grocery store, but I wish I could...sometimes want to take it off and smack people with it! Can you imagine the looks on their faces? LOL!
by Libra1014
on 5/7/2008 at 10:12 pm
I disagree with not eating meat..yopu NEED protein for your body to run efficiently. I began using soy a year ago...soy ice cream, soy yogert, soy milk...and my night sweats, hot flashes, memory issues and just that ODD feeling was totally gone! I mentioned this earlier...did you try it?
by sporty03
on 5/7/2008 at 3:36 pm
Stop eating meat and the hot flashes stop immediately - same day. I was also having problems with joint pain. That also went away after I went vegan.
Good luck and God Bless you.
by Surviving
on 4/17/2008 at 3:49 pm
One word...SOY. Soy milk, soy yogert, soy ice cream...I use about 1/2 cup a day and no more night sweats or hot flashes.
by sporty03
on 4/9/2008 at 10:53 pm
As long as I excercise enough to break a sweat every day, my hot flashes are few and far between. Also, I just received my chillow so have not used it, but so many survivors told me they swear by it! I got mine on ebay...
by ehk
on 4/8/2008 at 11:21 am
Omega III fish oil tablets, and an anti depressant like celexa...works for me.
by BreastFriend
on 2/25/2008 at 1:21 am
My doctor recommended 1000mg of Evening Primrose twice a day, morning and evening. You can get it at Wal-mart for about 5 bucks for 75. I have found it works pretty darn good.
by Dasmiths
on 2/8/2008 at 3:27 pm
I have had hot flashes since my doctor took away my hormone replacement therapy five years ago. I had been through menopause 10 years ago but was still hot flashing like crazy. My doctor put me on Effexor XR and that does help since stress triggers hot flashes. I had also taken the Estroven otc for several years but I don't see where that helped me. I have tried the other herbals and don't find them helpful. I carried around a collapsable fan in my purse and had cardboard fans around the house and office. I found that if I feel a hot flash coming on that if I "fan it down" right away, it goes away without me ever breaking into a sweat. Of course that much fanning gave me carpel tunnel and had to give those up. Do you have Deals stores where you live? I found a little battery operated fan for $1 that includes the 2 AA batteries. They are about half the size of a large tube of tooth paste. They come in all colors and even have a cord to hang the fan around your neck. They are quiet and work just great. I have one with me all the time. I just whip it out and cool off for about one minute and I am fine. Most people who see me get it out think it is fun. And, of course, the more you joke about hot flashes, the more relaxed you feel and the fewer flashes you will have. I love em! At night, I have an 8" fan on my bedside table. If I feel one coming on I just reach over and turn it on, then turn it off when I am cooled off. I love that also.
by PJD
on 1/30/2008 at 2:40 pm
Breast friend--yes, I noticed over Christmas that wine did make me feel more uncomfortable. light cotton clothes and layers--the other day I put on a sweatshirt and ripped it off and put it on and ripped it off...you get the picture. So I changed into a cotton tank top and a thin flannel shirt and I felt much better. Still had flashes but they didn't seem so bad!

Cold wet cloth...that reminds me--anyone use chillow pillows or those chillable bandanas?

Thanks gals! :)
by Bay
on 1/18/2008 at 4:04 pm
Watch the wine. Keep your clothes lightweight. Wrap a cold wet cloth around your neck.
by BreastFriend
on 1/15/2008 at 10:37 pm
Thanks so much for that input Denise. That's interesting and something I'm going to look into. I would miss my plain yogurt and eggs terribly though....
by Bay
on 1/14/2008 at 6:52 pm
My diet eliminates hot flashes. Seriously. If I stick to a vegan diet, I experience absolutely no hot flashes. When I incorporate animal products in my diet, the hot flashes return. I don't think it is coincidence. For the record, I take zoladex.

Denise
by ScarletFire
on 1/13/2008 at 1:58 pm
I never even thought of accupuncture for this, Frankie! Good suggestion~I'll have to look into this...maybe it would even help with the insomnia....

Nancy, I'd be careful about using black cohosh--I understand they're not sure if it hurts or benefits women who have had estrogen sensitive breast cancers. ACS has a guide to herbal supplements that might have more info http://www.cancer.org/docroot/ETO/ETO_5_2_5.asp?sitearea=ETO
by Bay
on 1/10/2008 at 9:04 pm
My friend swears by accupuncture! It's the only things that removed her night sweats when she was on tamoxofin.
by frankenstein
on 1/9/2008 at 11:00 pm
ya when is the ultimate question here???????
I am taking 1000 mg of Evening primerose three times a day and it seems to help, my gyn suggested black cohash too but I have not tried it yet. But do the feet out plus hav two fans that blow on us at nights one on hubby side at our heads and other at my feet. Hubby says I sweat alot now but most nights it does not wake me up and if it does I take a big ole drink of ice water and then fall right back to sleep.
love and support to all
Nancy
by whitewolfe
on 1/8/2008 at 7:38 pm
We sleep with the window cracked and it really does help....I use to love to take my bath before bed but not anymore. Seems like my hot flashes were worse when I did this. I'm willing to for go the bath if it helps the hot flashes. Besides that, feet out of the covers, water by your bed are the only other things that I do. Can't wait until it's over? I went into menopause from the chemo and my doc told me the hot flashes would be worse, and they are! Lori
by Lori
on 1/8/2008 at 2:39 pm
Ha, ha--your friend is so right about the socks! I always wore socks to bed until now....not 5 minutes after I get in bed...the socks come off! I tried the sleeping with my feet outside the covers last night--I do think it helped me from getting one of the bad flashes unless I was too exhausted to notice!
I don't know when it will pass...my onc said it may take 6-8 more months "for my body to adjust.." it's only now that I wonder exactly what he meant by that. 6-8 months wouldn't be so bad. As long as there's light at the end of the tunnel!
by Bay
on 1/8/2008 at 11:24 am
Hot flashes.... aren't they fun! I went to a Dollar General store and bought a 6 inch fan ($10) and have it sitting on my nightstand right beside my head. I use it all the time since the ceiling fan and large fan bothered my husband. I also never go to bed without a glass of ice water. A woman I work with that has already been through this told me to never wear socks to bed and to stick my feet out from under the sheets when I sleep. As strange as that sounds it really helps! I just keeping thinking that this too shall pass...... but when?
by Trisha
on 1/7/2008 at 6:42 pm

Found a Bug?

Feedback

sizeof $html: 41421 0.0017 Load functions.php + error check 0.0235 Load Controllers 0.0016 checkCookies & Start session 0.0013 Load CLASSES 0.1703 Controller execute() 0.0086 create L10Sapphire XML Object 0.2253 XSL saveXML() 0.0000 SendCookies 0.0035 echo $html and $buffer 0.4544 Total
0.487809896469