<?xml version="1.0"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Photoshopmom's Discussion RSS Feed</title><link>http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/mynbcf/members/photoshopmom/discussions/rss</link><description>Photoshopmom's Discussion RSS Feed</description><item><title><![CDATA[No Response]]></title><link>http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/mynbcf/members/photoshopmom/discussions/8521</link><guid>http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/mynbcf/members/photoshopmom/discussions/8521</guid><description><![CDATA[I told my adult daughter about my lump, and that next week I will have a lumpectomy, but the doctor was very optimistic, she (my dtr) looked at all the scans and mammograms  films that  I have, but she gave no response, nothing at all.
She said she would worry when I got my reports, she was too busy with her 3 month old to worry about me until I was really sick.  I guess I was hoping for a hug, and an I love you Mom, when my grandson was in the hospital, I was there for her, my husband is so hurt and mad, that he will not talk to her, and somehow everyone has concern for her not me.  I never ask to be in the spotlight, just would like some concern, am I asking too much from a 23 yr old?  

Today she called an asked me to make dinner for her, she is so tired with the baby and all,  I dont mind, but as I sit hear making spagetti sauce ,and making meat balls,that I'm the one who had a needle biospy, etc, I love her, but at this age
how do I relay to her that this is a difficult situation and I need some support and care.  
Any suggestions would be great, cos my brain is on idle]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[how to tell your kids]]></title><link>http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/mynbcf/members/photoshopmom/discussions/8506</link><guid>http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/mynbcf/members/photoshopmom/discussions/8506</guid><description><![CDATA[I have an adult child ,23, she has a 3 month son that has epilepsy, and her husband is going thru depression over that, now how do I tell her that surgery is coming, 
I dont want to say the "C" word because, she has been thru it the last month,
Should I wait and see what happens, or should I give her all the info?
I appreciate your input, ]]></description></item></channel></rss>